Why is that when you try your hardest to have your hair look perfectly coiffed that it always looks a mess?
This always happens to me. I’m trying to make the mane look extra special and defined for some sort of event or meeting that I’m concerned about and without fail, I feel like my hair looks terrible. I get no compliments. No one tries to inappropriately invade my bubble (not wishing, but just saying).
And then there are those days when I basically roll out of bed and think, “Man, the fro looks crazy today!” What do I get? Adulation. Compliments. Natural hair discussions. Sigh.
I’m not sure what it is about those lax hair care days that prompts people to respond so positively. Maybe there’s the perception that my perfectly imperfect hair equals confidence? And it’s not all about having highly defined hair either.
I’ve had “high maintenance” days when I wash, deep conditioner, use a leave in and just let it air dry and…nothing. But, on those days when I basically roll out of bed and feel like my fro is matted and knotted up all over the place…compliments galore. What’s up with that?!
Does anyone else find this to be true for their hair? Share in the comments section below!